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The Secret of Success

We do not, in any way, seek to dispute or refute many other treatment modalities, be they traditional Twelve Step Facilities or otherwise. Similarly, we cannot disregard the often miserable outcome of continued distress (internal and external), most having a dismal success rate of 32%. The majority of our clients have tried other methods and have been incredulous at their ability to achieve positive long-lasting change within a few days of experiencing our programmes.

Success, to us, is not merely completion of a 28 day Treatment Programme.

We do not ‘Treat’ addictive disorders and other stress-related emotional issues. We abandon all states of incoherence to our True State of Being. Stress dramatically affects autonomic function. (See Warning Signs and Symptoms for a list of autonomic dysrhythmias.)

Our holistic, integrative approach has an established 82% success rate. Success being defined as a change of perception, understanding, knowledge of our psychological and physiological needs to maintain change, vitality and joy in being, and a serenity in heart for our inner (and outer!) Wellbeing.

Live in the world, but not of it

Environmental and emotional sensitivity due to disregulated brain stress systems can be successfully diminished with simple Stress Relief Tools and Techniques. Internal disharmony has less to do with ‘character defects’ than any other autonomic or acquired (through lifestyle) disorder. Acceptance of the part we play in that acquirement should not include ever-after blame for wrong choices made in the past. Each new day presents an opportunity to “grow into ourselves” emotionally, with care for our physical, mental and heart-felt needs in order to participate fully in all aspects of life whilst being a valuable contributor to others’ wellbeing and the ecology of the world around us. Making “amends” is a natural conclusion as we experience a healthier state of being; healing begins from within. To err is human, yet when we learn from past mistakes to change the present (improving the future) we are able to find forgiveness – possibly the greatest blessing we can give ourselves and others.

Outside the box

How we experience the world, our emotional attachment to our perceptions, construction of our ideas, thoughts and behaviour, can sometimes be limited – like seeing only half of a picture, or life through the lens of a camera.

Affinity Lodge aims to extendyour consciousness to reveal the Bigger Picture.  Releasing blockages, rather than virtual reality and false perceptions, experience your innate ability to create a multidimensional personality with an honest, open, inquisitive and courageous character of depth; able to apply inner Wisdom for outer Harmony.

Learning to live and think outside the box of preconceived limitations opens the heart and mind to healing and  extraordinary experiences.

Take off the blindfold … achieve your true potential!